For 4 years I foster parented other people's teenage boys. There were some challenging moments, but all in all it was pretty great. I came into the adolescence of my child a bit cocky, feeling like this was going to be a piece of cake. We are 2 years in and there is nothing 'piece of cake-ish' about it. I daily remind myself that we love each other, that every other child and every other parent goes through this brutal phase of life. I breathe in...and breathe out and remember that someday, we will celebrate the passage of this phase...by eating cake.
Monday, November 29, 2010
Thursday, November 25, 2010
Blast from the Past
College roommates who found each other on Facebook after 16 years without contact, only to find that we live in neighboring towns and have a million things in common. It's the stuff of movies! We celebrated Thanksgiving today - her family and mine. Cindy's son Connor calls my kids his 'cousins'...which is as good as true. This is family!
Friday, November 19, 2010
Weebalos
I'm not a very devoted Scouts mom. I can never remember if it's a 'den' meeting or a 'pack' meeting. The patches are ironed, not sewn onto the uniforms. Nevertheless, I love the joy that these 2 get out of being in Scouts. They love the achievements. They love the shooting and archery. Jack could live without the bugs.
34 Hours a Week
South High...where I spend my working hours. I love this place and the people who spend their days here. I gave staff flu shots this week and met some of the nicest people. A woman who retired from teaching here and now works with student teachers here, a few 'cafeteria ladies', and aide that works one on one with very special needs children. How lucky am I to be surrounded by people who devote their days to making someone else's day better? So lucky
Tuesday, November 16, 2010
Bendy Boy
When we bought this house Eli and Jack were two and spent a lot of time hiding in sneaky little places. This kitchen cabinet was a favorite. It freaks me out...just a little...that at 9 1/2 years old, Eli still fits in it. He's an uber bendy boy.
Brotherly Love
I know it's a big brother's right to torture the younger ones, but is it wrong to wish that he didn't look so happy while doing it?
Sunday, November 14, 2010
Zack and Bobby
Zack became part of our family when he was in high school. He has ALWAYS been such a gift to me. It's been a tremendous joy to watch (from a distance these days) as he has grown into an amazing man, loving husband and very smitten dad.
Friday, November 12, 2010
When Life Hands You Boys...
...you have to just borrow girls! I love being the mother of boys, but there is something so fun about having little girls around. Ivy and Bella spent an hour today playing playdough, singing, giggling. No one got shot. Nothing exploded. Nice change of pace!
Thursday, November 11, 2010
El Tigre
Our little cat Tiger has brought such joy to our clan. He was one of the kittens we rescued in June...the only one we kept. Everyone loves his fun, sociable nature. If anyone sits for a moment, the little purrer arrives to give some affection. Who could say no to that?
Wednesday, November 10, 2010
The King of the Boys
Josh at 15 is the King of the Boys. Eli, Jack and all of their friends think he's incredibly cool. He knows so much about the most important things: music, tech decks, trick biking. They clamor for his attention, to show him what they know. In the world of boys, he is king.
Tuesday, November 9, 2010
Monday, November 8, 2010
Jack "The Hawk"
This photo of Jack was taken a few weeks ago. It has been fantastic to watch him fall in love with soccer over the last few seasons. He has a natural affinity for the sport and truly loves being on a team. He laughs a lot and spends much of the game chatting with his teammates...and opponents!
Sunday, November 7, 2010
Eli in Black
Eli has such specific clothing requirements...it's a short list. Must be warm. Must be fuzzy on his skin. Preferably black. I found this sweatshirt at Old Navy. It was a winner because it has 'fur' all the way down the sleeves. It only came in Women's sizes, so I bought him an XS. No shame in wearing women's clothing when it meets ALL of your criteria!
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